Sunday, September 25, 2016

Picture Purge

Well it's been 9 months since my last post. Here is a little picture purge of what keeps me so busy. I have got to get better about documenting things and keeping track of things the kids do and say other than facebook. I have a lot of family on FB that I never get to see and that haven't even met the kids but keep up with us through there so that has been my main source of updating on life.

The biggest change is that our twinnies have started school! We couldn't have picked better teachers for Maci & Chipper. I was sure that we couldn't go wrong with whoever they were placed with. Maci is independent but loves everyone and wants to be best friends with everyone. Her teacher is perfect for her because she is well seasoned but I feel like she is clear about her expectations from her students and sets the bar high which we appreciate. Academics is very important to us and setting a routine and a high standard from the get go is what I am about. Chipper is my soft hearted, often overlooked child. He is the epitome of Middle Child Syndrome bless his heart. He is an easy going guy who can play by himself and never complains and doesn't request the attention that both Maci and Elias demand.  I have made more of a conscious effort to spend more one on one time with him though and last week we (just me and him) played hide and seek outside for almost an hour! Chipper has really flourished in just the few months he has been in school and we owe it all to his teacher. He is more social and write his name very well and has learned so much. We thought that we may struggle a bit getting him to focus because he is often in his own world but getting him to do homework is a breeze and he enjoys it!


How is it even possible that they are old enough to be in school. They had their first school dance just a few weeks ago but mom and dad weren't ready for that so they didn't go. I instantly regretted it when I saw pictures posted of all of their friends on facebook at the dance.

My Elias keeps us as busy as ever. This sweet little munchkin gives us a run for our money EVERY SINGLE DAY. We were nervous about him attending the babysitters alone because since day 1 he has had big brother and big sis with him but our sitter has told us several times that he is actually doing better there now that he is alone. Here he is this past spring helping at brother and sisters first baseball practice. We joked that he was the team mascot. There were several games where he would run out on the field mid game. We had some heavy hitters on our team and it made me really nervous but dad took care of him.



Since William and I have made more of an effort to spend more quality time with each other we have found a new hobby. Well he has. Last year he started playing disc golf with some friends from work. He would throw some by himself while I ran and then convinced me to play some with him and I actually really like it! Not that I am any good really, but it's nice having something that we both like to do.

And last but certainly not least my little sister is getting married! In just a few short weeks actually! Seth had talked to me a few times about asking Ashlie and how he was going to do it and we talked about rings. I am just ecstatic for them. Seth is a genuine guy who I know loves my sister with all he has. I am so proud of both of them. We just had their wedding shower last weekend, this weekend we have Ashlie's bachelorette party and then Oct 15th is the big day! I can't wait. They have chose to get married in the smokies and her dress is gorgeous! I am going to try not to cry but you know me...I'm going to be teary eyed all day I'm sure!

                                           We had to sneak in a selfie at the wedding shower.

                                            Seriously, just look at these two! Gorgeous!


Monday, January 4, 2016

30 Things to do before I'm 30 PT 2.

And the list continues!
I made a list of 30 things to do before I'm 30 and its actually a little harder than what I thought. But I have narrowed it down. Here's part 2!

14. Visit The Big Apple! I really want to go to New York! Like realllllly bad! William Keown I am thinking 7 year anniversary.


13.  I have had several different hair colors. Purple, Red, Blonde and for most of my life my hair has been pretty short. Life is to short to have boring hair and so I would like to get something different done in my 20's. I feel like this is the last year to really turn it up before I turn 30 and it looks like I'm trying to hard to be young. I'm thinking blue. And yes, I know this totally contradicts my goal of letting my hair grow and donating it because it's colored. You'll just have to stay tuned and see which one I choose.
 
12. Rid my life of useless items. I am not a hoarder by a long shot. I hate clutter and I have a rule that if I don't use it in 3 months and its not seasonal (I.E. Christmas Decor) then its useless to me and gets donated. However I do have a few things that I have been holding onto that just need to go. Maybe those size 2 True Religion jeans I scored at a yard sale for 1.00 because they were a "really big size 2" and I just "might" fit into them one day. Please girl, the last time you were a size 2 was 6th grade. And I'm totally fine with that. I'm more confident in myself than I ever have been but yeah...it's not going to happen. Just donate them.
 
 
11. Save More Money. If you know me, you know I love to shop. I pride myself in getting great deals and using coupons but really hunker down and save money.
 
 
10. Start keeping a journal. Whether it be electronically or a hard copy I want to start writing more. Whether it be the crazy things my 3 come up with. Sweet things my husband has done for me or said or maybe just counting blessings. Just document more.
 
9. Take a class. Hopefully this will be more than just one class because I hope to start getting my master's and convince my husband to finish his Bachelor's.
 
8. Get rid of bad habits. That's all I'm going to say about that one. I know what they are.
 
7. Volunteer for a cause. Not just for a few hours but really give my time and attention about something I'm passionate about. Helping abuse victims or hungry children in my community.
 
6. Forgive myself for past mistakes. I give myself a harder time than anyone ever could.
 
 
Ok...things are about to get serious...Top 5 more life changing things to do before I'm 30.
 
5. Pay off debt. We have most of our credit card debt paid off and about to really tackle student loans. How awesome would it be to go into our 30's debt free. YAAAASSS!
 
4. Be a better wife. Really, I think I rock in this department but there is always room for improvement. I have so many friends who all of their attention goes to their children and their husbands get left to the side. I really try to give my husband the attention and time he needs and deserves. Otherwise, when my kids grow up what am I going to be left with? An empty marriage. Wives, love your husbands!
 
3. Say no to people. If you need something done or need a favor. I'm your girl. It's in my nature to want to please people and help people but I need to learn to say no.
 
2. Enjoy motherhood more. It's really easy to get caught up in day to day things that HAVE to get done to over shadow 3 of the most important things in my life and that's my children. Y'all being a mom is so much harder than I EVER thought it could be.
 
1. Enjoy life! Find joy in the hard days and blessings in the trials. Have peace within myself so I can ROCK MY 30's!!